Saturday, August 9, 2008

wait for the fantasy prince

wait for the fantasy prince

who not wants has ideal companion? honest, clever, rigid, tajir, and honourable. not only that,
we hope also the he is menyayanggi we are forever, not only give, but also get us what
existence. may be this is not yet enough, we also want the he doesn't obscure us in develop
career. the main the he must be pair idealest make us. but is it possible that that? follow tricks
follow by get your ideal man.
1. has determination to change
may simply all affection string connections always there the obstacle. the obstacle can diverse, like
pair always make a problem out of same thing, and recurrent. why does error same can happen
return? may be commitment necessary at clarify.
your pair can be said has commitment to change if he has attitude:
selalu out for change by reaches best. when do you middle kasmaran with this type, guaranteed
your connection easier and enthusiastic. attitude very valuable to tighten your connection.
dia realize the deficit. very risky if you relate to one who doesn't realize the deficit
because always consider true self.
a change. majority only undercutting promise to change. but, if your pair declares to want
change, you must appreciate it. for example the he wants to stop to smoke, look for new job or learn more
sabarlagi. you also must can distinguish hard will that type and unnecessary push to alterable
with always need you to remind.
ask in your self and your pair:
apa you study during 10 year later, and how does this matter can change you?
apa you have studied from former your close friend? can there that change your attitude in this time?
apa your deficit is biggest and does the cause?
apa principal complaint from pair about you? can you accept it?
perubahan what you intended from ownself 5 year coming?
2. sensitive and opened.
when want to braid connection steady, you two must opened, mutual curhat. when does this not be done,
mean you two not yet ready for braid serious connection. in that openness is your pair not henti-henti
show or say that he love and respect you.
ask in you and your pair:
apakah you felt better pleasant moment unfold feeling to one who you love?
perasaan what difficultest you lay open? feeling what else easiest? do you felt this matter always change?
apakah you felt indisposed for do something shares?
bagaimana feeling you after pour out uneg you?
apakah former your darling is ever says that you one who opened?
3. mutual honest and believe.
connection that well not may be intertwin without honesty, integrity and belief. these attitudes
important to creat safe taste and mutual believe. difference the things of if we have pair that like to lie,
we always in a condition of feeling not calm.
pair full of integrity:
jujur towards th.
jujur at all of person.
jujur in you.
tidak ever perfoming a game.
ask in your self and your pair:
apakah best every pair must honest in all matter?
kalau may be, what do you want to hide?
apakah you ever lie in your darling? how does feeling you at the time?
menurut you are what make you felt guilty? bring to go home office goods kerumah or not
return your purse finds at road?
4. adult and responsible.
between we are really there not yet make provision against commitment. under this there are some sign that can
show to what your pair enough adult to faces commitment:
bertanggung answer. one who responsible usually do all that he promises. doesn't deny it
because doesn't want to disappoint another person.
penuh honour taste. you can detect attitude one with pay attention to what him realize feeling you
or feeling another person in situation and correct condition.
ask in you and your pair:
apakah you time unerring?
dalam do you less responsible exercise? for example doesn't phone to return if some'x phones you.
dalam your affection tissue, is your character? as exit livelihood or as cause?
apakah you enough sensitive towards feeling another person?
5. has selfrespect.
may be you often hear that he love you the way he did love th so much.
marking that show him has tall selfrespect:
bangga towards th he has felted satisfied with the alive now
tidak like another person tramples self price. more you felt pity towards ownself. you not
will like there another person that trample your selfrespect.
dia quickly take decision
ask in you and your pair:
apa most make you felt proud?
apakah you seldom or often temporize problem?
apa biggest risk ever you face? is risk ever you koid?
6. posed positive.
unfortunately, sometimes we fall in love with uninitiated how the opinion towards world.
really all that can make big enough difference. but at least we have pair always berperila positive.
person berperila negative;
- memfokus self in problem and doesn't break it
- always sigh
- let self washeds away afraid feeling and worried
- felt sarcastic and pessimist that time
- not credolous another person
person berperila positive
+ memfokus self in problem completion that faced
+ change failure is whip and experience
+ believe that him can to change failure
+ sure all will walk well
ask in you and your pair:
what you felt those everybody is wicked or good?
if there matter disagree with you intended, how does your reaction?
what you have alive motto? what ever change?
how does your strategy narated this life to children later?
will what you will felt sure all will walk at ease to the good? please explain why?

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